{"id":480,"date":"2019-03-21T14:34:12","date_gmt":"2019-03-21T14:34:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/?p=480"},"modified":"2019-03-21T14:34:12","modified_gmt":"2019-03-21T14:34:12","slug":"friday-ramblings-15","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/?p=480","title":{"rendered":"Friday Ramblings"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>On Tuesday&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>First World Problems. Nice buzzword. Recognition of perspective. The idea that my current situation is not quite as daunting or life changing as it may feel in the moment. I am certainly guilty of losing perspective in a variety of ways and circumstances. I would imagine most of us do. One place I know that I&#8217;ve struggled to see through the clear lens of reality is when watching my kids experience life, particularly sports. And boy howdy, I can say with complete confidence that I am not the only one.<\/p>\n<p>And I don&#8217;t want to get into all the different ways that the idea of first world problems comes into focus for a lot of us on this earth. I would also say that having a distorted perspective when it comes to being a part of our kids lives, shows up in all kinds of places. But how out of focus can the view be for adults when it comes to youth sports? I know. Pretty fuzzy picture.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the perspective. Enjoy the reality that you have the opportunity as a parent to watch your son, daughter, grandchild, friend, put on a uniform of any kind and compete in a sport; on the field or not. The other reality is that some parents do not get or no longer have the opportunity. And I&#8217;m not trying to be overly dramatic, but I am trying to give a little jolt back to the First World. I struggle with this too.<\/p>\n<p>Without all the history, you may not understand my perspective on this. It is not that I have experienced tragedy with kids. But have experienced a greater joy when I see things a little more in focus. Find a little way to hold yourself accountable if you live in the First World. Tough, but so worth it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p> &hellip; <\/p>\n<div class=\"more-diva-2\"><span class=\"more-link-2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/?p=480\">Read More<\/a><\/span><\/div>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_feature_clip_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[7,6,5,11],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-480","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-adolescents","category-children","category-families","category-positive-mental-health"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pa9JRI-7K","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/480","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=480"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/480\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":483,"href":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/480\/revisions\/483"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=480"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=480"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/soundsidefamilycounseling.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=480"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}